The good, the bad, the ugly

Had That Conversation with my husband.

All is well.

He was only surprised by the specific boundaries present in my secondary relationship.

He's fine with things continuing as they have done.


However, getting him back requires far more hoop-jumping that anticipated. I will be off-line for some while.

Feel free to read and post comments; but it might be a week or so before I can respond. Fortunately, my friends are all very accommodating, and I will be able to hop online briefly from time to time. I'm going to store my Imac somewhere other than at home. I might even see if I'm allowed to bring it to work. That might actually solve several problems, temporarily.

What's worse is that he's not handling things well. I've sent him out with specific instructions and pointed out specific things he can do to get us "compliant" before our inspection tomorrow. He fails to understand that the freaking TOYS I have on display are more likely to cause suspicion and alarm than a computer locked in a cabinet under lock and key.

They say the universe only gives you what you can handle.
It trusts me far too much.