Weekend wiles...
May. 6th, 2005 07:28 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
lollypoxI have a weekend to plan. Sunday is the Day of the Mothers.
Edit: Some portions of this entry have been removed. Get over it. You snooze you lose.
I haven't chosen an "elsewhere" yet. I have several options, some of which involve my Mom. She'd probably love to have me overnight on Saturday.
Of course, what I'm hoping for is the option to go hang out with my new *special friends.* They (undoubtedly) have a bunch of mother's day stuff to do, but are working all that out and getting back to me on whether we can sneak in some cuddle time.
Wouldn't that be lovely?
I am still deeply amused by their stories of encountering agressively poly people who gave them shit about their closed, monogamous status. Of course those stories now have an ironic footnote attached to them, but despite the fact that I get to engage in intimate play with them, I (oddly enough) still think of them as monogamous.
Of course some of their stories involve people that I know, and those people have been instrumental in my not hanging around in "the poly community."
Assholes. It makes you just as big an asshole if you're poly, straight, bi, gay, monogamous, married, single, a parent, childless, or whatever... *And you shove it down everyone's throat and try to get them to see that you're following the ONE TREW WAY!*
Argh. Waving your pride flag and telling everyone who doesn't do things your way that they're WRONG or DELUDED is obnoxious.
Blech.
I don't expect my poly friends to suddenly decide that they are closing their primary relationship and becoming the ideal american family. I don't expect my married friends to suddenly announce that they are opening the marriage because they've found enlightenment by fucking other people.
This bullshit DOES happen, but I rarely expect it. I might quietly predict it in my head (as well as predicting a pendulum effect of the group in question swinging the other way dramatically...)
At any rate...
What was I talking about?
Oh yeah. My weekend.
I think I'll play it by ear and if I end up without plans I'll go inflict my gorgeous person upon an unsuspecting friend.
Ding, Dong!
I'm HERE!
:)
Edit: Some portions of this entry have been removed. Get over it. You snooze you lose.
I haven't chosen an "elsewhere" yet. I have several options, some of which involve my Mom. She'd probably love to have me overnight on Saturday.
Of course, what I'm hoping for is the option to go hang out with my new *special friends.* They (undoubtedly) have a bunch of mother's day stuff to do, but are working all that out and getting back to me on whether we can sneak in some cuddle time.
Wouldn't that be lovely?
I am still deeply amused by their stories of encountering agressively poly people who gave them shit about their closed, monogamous status. Of course those stories now have an ironic footnote attached to them, but despite the fact that I get to engage in intimate play with them, I (oddly enough) still think of them as monogamous.
Of course some of their stories involve people that I know, and those people have been instrumental in my not hanging around in "the poly community."
Assholes. It makes you just as big an asshole if you're poly, straight, bi, gay, monogamous, married, single, a parent, childless, or whatever... *And you shove it down everyone's throat and try to get them to see that you're following the ONE TREW WAY!*
Argh. Waving your pride flag and telling everyone who doesn't do things your way that they're WRONG or DELUDED is obnoxious.
Blech.
I don't expect my poly friends to suddenly decide that they are closing their primary relationship and becoming the ideal american family. I don't expect my married friends to suddenly announce that they are opening the marriage because they've found enlightenment by fucking other people.
This bullshit DOES happen, but I rarely expect it. I might quietly predict it in my head (as well as predicting a pendulum effect of the group in question swinging the other way dramatically...)
At any rate...
What was I talking about?
Oh yeah. My weekend.
I think I'll play it by ear and if I end up without plans I'll go inflict my gorgeous person upon an unsuspecting friend.
Ding, Dong!
I'm HERE!
:)
